Supporting a Loved One with Opioid Use Disorder
When someone you care about has Opioid Use Disorder, it affects the entire family. Learning how to provide effective support while taking care of yourself is crucial for everyone’s well-being.
Understanding Your Role
- You didn’t cause their addiction
- You can’t control their addiction
- You can’t cure their addiction
- You can provide support and encouragement
- You can set healthy boundaries
- You can take care of yourself
How to Help
Educate Yourself
- Learn about addiction as a medical condition
- Understand treatment options
- Know the signs of overdose and how to respond
- Learn about available resources in your community
Communicate Effectively
- Choose appropriate times to talk (when they’re not under the influence)
- Use “I” statements instead of accusatory language
- Express concern without judgment
- Avoid enabling behaviors
- Set clear boundaries and consequences
Encourage Treatment
- Research treatment options ahead of time
- Offer to help with logistics (transportation, childcare, insurance)
- Be patient – they may not be ready immediately
- Celebrate small steps toward recovery
- Don’t give ultimatums unless you’re prepared to follow through
What Not to Do
- Don’t give money that could be used for drugs
- Don’t make excuses for their behavior
- Don’t threaten consequences you won’t enforce
- Don’t use guilt or shame as motivation
- Don’t enable by covering for them
- Don’t take their addiction personally
Crisis Situations: If Your Loved One Is In Immediate Danger
- Call 911 for medical emergencies
- Know the signs of overdose (slow or absent breathing, blue lips or fingernails, unconsciousness)
- Have naloxone (Narcan) available and know how to use it
- Call 988 for mental health crises


